"Very few people have intercourse per se [Latin
for by thrust] that goes longer than 12 minutes," says sex
therapist Barry W. McCarthy. Essentially, ejaculatory inhibition, which is also
called "delayed orgasm" or "junkie orgasm," has less to do
with actual time than an inability to ejaculate when you'd like. And premature
ejaculation, which is also called "rapid ejaculation" or "your
ejaculation," refers to intercourse that lasts less than a minute or two.
A good session of sex is not all about the actual act. It
calls for a lot of psychological and emotional bonding before the act. Foreplay
also has its own importance in making sex really memorable. While all these
little things can make sex satisfying, it doesn’t necessarily make the session
last long. A study published in Journal of Sexual Medicine also states
that the average time for a good intercourse is around 7.3 minutes.
However, if you want to make the session steamy and
exciting, add more minutes to it by extending foreplay and dirty talk. Delaying
the actual action can help you drum up more enthusiasm and help you be in the
act with more vigour.
How to time a good session
If you really want to make every minute of your session
count, here is how you can time it.
For a quickie: This can happen in five minutes
or less. However, you and your partner will have to get into action soon and
skip foreplay, caressing and eye-contact. If you are pressed for time and still
want to have fun, a five-minute session is also a good one.
For fun before sleep: Tired and exhausted but
still want some fun? A little foreplay, hitting exactly on your partner’s sweet
spots will help you set the mood soon and get some action before you doze off.
Such a session isn’t really memorable and might last just for little more than
10 minutes. But it is still good, given you get some action after a real tiring
day.
Being little experimental: Feeling relaxed,
getting an urge and want to have great sex? Then tonight spend more time with
your partner rather than watching porn. Try a new sex position, role play or
even a sensual massage. However, even such experimental sex shouldn’t exceed 15
minutes of your time to get the best out of it.
Yearning for memorable sex: Well memorable sex
needs more time and attention, so spend time on the details – foreplay, making
eye-contact, talking dirty or flirting before you get on to the actual act.
Even such a session should not exceed 25 minutes; the rest of the night should
be used to bond and cuddle up in each other’s arms for restful sleep.
Seriously, when it comes to sex, the less time spent the
better. But again you are the best judge of your act. If you think spending the
entire night on the act is what is satisfying, then go ahead and do it. Just
make sure that your partner is also on the same page. Else, you would be
left alone masturbating the entire night after the act gets over the first time.
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